Not all of us can grieve like how other people cry and mourn like there is no tomorrow. We all grieve differently, and we don't need to hide or pretend something that we are not. We can choose to grieve according to what we feel and what we want others to see us. It does not matter how people will tell us what to do and what to feel. But it matters the things that make us feel better. And we are comfortable doing, like how we would like to have the remains of our loved ones placed in pendants for ashes. |